miércoles, 27 de marzo de 2013

Make a tatoo where you can see it!

"What we fear doing most is usually what we most need to do".

Fear is such a useless feeling most of the time except when we have to survive to accidental situations which "can be" practice.

Technique I usually use to beat fear:
Define the worst case, accept it, and do it.


Are you scared of talking to random people? Then accept you are, and go to talk to random people. Ask them anything, like:
- Are you Spanish? or any other country the person looks like. So just about to start a conversation.
- Hello, what's your name? As simple as that, you will surprise the person in front of you and that's why he or she might like you and remember you forever!
- You can then be more creative and different each time you ask, depending what that person inspires you just tell them something you find nice about themselves straight away.

Are you scared of tell the girl/ boy you like you do?
Are you scared of contacting your favourite actor?
Are you scared of telling your parents what you think about their way of educating you?
Are you scared of telling your boss something?
Are you scared of asking: What's the time?
Are you scared of doing a public speech?

And so on and on, just make a list and start killing them! One by one! It will become easier and easier!

Good luck to all!






lunes, 25 de marzo de 2013

Why do we have to invent and hide info in our CVs??

Guys!

I have wrote an article in my website just to update it but then got excited and added some comments that might be interesting to read!
http://www.nereacarrion.com/finances.html

We are as we are, and we should be transparent and proud of it, all this tendency of manipulating our CVs, adding stuff, deleting stuff, etc, etc well I never liked it although I have to say I have done it too! But stopping now! That´s it, I am done in following these rules that someone created!

New companies hopefully care more about attitude and many other more important things! well I believe they do! And if they don´t they will have to as we are stopping this fa*e CVs!


Things to care about when you hire someone.
Attitude
Enthusiasm
Carisma
Selfmotivation
Happiness
Creativity


Good night! Day!




Just small changes in your day to day

Good morning!

As we know there are many ways of becoming an optimistic person forever!
And what happens is that positiveness bring positive things to you, clear is the example of meeting happy people, they do change your mood usually! So that means most of the people they meet are going to be happy at least when they are together. Also when you become positive, your brain start to react against the negative, like stopping to listen or just not taking it inside, so it is more difficult to follow a negative one!

I have watched this video which teach me few things we can do to change our life, they are small things and work!

3 Gratitudes (Everybody like to hear nice things about their selves, so go for it, say thank you and say how cool and great people are!)

Journalism (Will need to practice this one, but I understand it as write your diary and finish all you have in there, that will make you feel as you are achieving goals)

Exercise (Can become like a drug, your mind become so clear after that, creativity comes up and your health increases!)

Meditation (Will need to practice that too, will put it in my diary ;))

Random Acts of Kindness (Smile to random people! help when someone need it! Be creative

And always say: GOOD MORNING!!!!

Do it during 21 days as experts advice and give me some feedback please!

Have a great time!

http://www.ted.com/talks/shawn_achor_the_happy_secret_to_better_work.html

jueves, 21 de marzo de 2013

Do you love people? or you hate them?

Loving unconditionally it's the key!

People are good when they are born, you are people like them, even if you think you are better than most of people, probably they think the same as you!

Respect them , accept the differences and be a friend.

We are the same specie, we are made from the same. We are all connected at some point!


A company is stronger if it is bound by love rather than by
fear __ If the employees come first, then they're happy.
—HERB KELLEHER, cofounder of Southwest Airlines
LOVE THEM!

miércoles, 20 de marzo de 2013

Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no
happiness without action.
BENJAMIN DISRAELI, former British PrimeMinister





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martes, 19 de marzo de 2013

Can you help anyone with our experience?

I guess this it is an obvious quiestion, but are we doing anything for it? That's probably THE QUESTION!

I am not telling you to regret anything about your life, as ALL experiences are good for something, it is a learning process, so ANYTHING you do is good at least to not do it again! ;) TO LEARN

Would you like to help others? Then stop thinking you want to help and HELP!
And here you are the opportunity to start, it is all about STARTING!

As simple as sharing your thoughts in this campaign!

http://www.thebenefitofhindsight.org/

Thank you!


If you don't build your dream someone will hire you to help build theirs

It is sad but just ask around your circle.

A simple quiestion as: What's your plan for life? What do you like to do? What do you really want? What are your passions?

These are difficult questions that's true, but we need to spend time answering and reviewing them at some point!

Can you get what you don't know you want? No, you can't! Well obviously like in everything else there are exceptions and you can win the lottery by finding a number on the street!

But generally, if you don't think about this then you don't get it! Even if you think sometimes you don't get it either but at least you have probabilities.


DON'T BE AFRAID!!!!!




domingo, 10 de marzo de 2013

50% of Happiness is genetics!!!

Hello!

I have watched this Happy movie today, and I have learned something very interesting.

50% of our Happiness is genetics!
10% is Outside situations, as job, society, etc
and........ ta ta ta taaaaaaaan
40% is OUR ACTIVITY! Yeah so it is in our hands!

Measure happiness is a hard thing to do, as it is different for everybody, but find yours by observing and knowing yourself!

http://www.thehappymovie.com/

miércoles, 6 de marzo de 2013

Why do we have to fill our CV with things that we don't even care about???

Is there a point for this? Really! Is it?

Yeah well it is because instead noon will employ you! So yes we do have to do it! But what if everyone stops doing it? The companies will have to change the way of selecting people as nobody will be just filling up with lies and not interesting things for themselves.

I am sure a lot of companies are updated and are already looking for an attitude, enthusiasm, passion, happy people, vocation! Instead of degrees, courses, etc. etc. etc.

I don't mean that it is not important to have a degree, of course it is, but let's say is NOT the most important, but the attitude is definitely important, how do you react to different situations, how do you control yourself and your mind and emotions. These things can make de difference!

So fill your CV with things that you love doing and don't waste YOUR TIME!

When you do a course that you don't care about usually you will forget everything after a week, so if you still want to add things to your work experience you had better invent it! Yes sounds bad, but would be a much more practical way!

If a company wants you just because of your CV you might not want that job as you might not be in the right company...

Or even better! Because of your copy-paste Motivational letter! come on! At least don't copy it from anybody. Does it make sense to do this? why don't we promote creativity and motivate people to write their own personal motivational letter? with no rules! Rules rules rules and templates everywhere!!!!!!!!! Let's STOP it!!!!


Enjoy your day/ night!!!


martes, 5 de marzo de 2013

I will tell you a story...

When I thought about the idea of making people happier and then about the blog I started to look for domains for it, and for my surprise! I found Forahappyworld.com available! AVAILABLE! How is that possible???!!!!!!! Nobody has imagined this before? nobody has dreamed with a happy world around?
I have! And, not just ones, I dream with this very often! Is this possible? Is it possible people smiling to each other on the street for no reason? I want it to be possible!! Do you?

I propose everyone to start doing it, just one more smile will make some difference, so just do it!
It was also available in Spanish! so I bought it too! And, I guess available in many other languages, I kind of prefer not to know it for now, was shocking enough!

Interesting was the fact of searching it in Internet, where I just found few things about happiness, the first coming up was:
http://www.behappymagazine.co.uk/
Luxury Holiday Cottage...

I am sure it is an amazing magazine!! But are we not just relating happiness with MONEY too much?